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![]() | The Evolving Self: Problem and Process in Human Development by Robert Kegan ISBN-10: 9780674272316 ISBN-10: 0-674-27231-5 ISBN-13: 9780674272316 ISBN-13: 978-0-674-27231-6 Paperback 1982-06-03 Harvard University Press Find Lowest Price | |
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Product Description The Evolving Self focuses upon the most basic and universal of psychological problems--the individual's effort to make sense of experience, to make meaning of life. According to Robert Kegan, meaning-making is a lifelong activity that begins in earliest infancy and continues to evolve through a series of stages encompassing childhood, adolescence, and adulthood. The Evolving Self describes this process of evolution in rich and human detail, concentrating especially on the internal experience of growth and transition, its costs and disruptions as well as its triumphs. At the heart of our meaning-making activity, the book suggests, is the drawing and redrawing of the distinction between self and other. Using Piagetian theory in a creative new way to make sense of how we make sense of ourselves, Kegan shows that each meaning-making stage is a new solution to the lifelong tension between the universal human yearning to be connected, attached, and included, on the one hand, and to be distinct, independent, and autonomous on the other. The Evolving Self is the story of our continuing negotiation of this tension. It is a book that is theoretically daring enough to propose a reinterpretation of the Oedipus complex and clinically concerned enough to suggest a variety of fresh new ways to treat those psychological complaints that commonly arise in the course of development. Kegan is an irrepressible storyteller, an impassioned opponent of the health-and-illness approach to psychological distress, and a sturdy builder of psychological theory. His is an original and distinctive new voice in the growing discussion of human development across the life span. | ||
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Insightful Classic work on the evolution of the self that considers Piaget, Erikson, Kolhberg etc. Very easy to read - and extremely helpful in understanding our differences and self-development. | ||
Simplicity on the Other Side of Complexity First, make no mistake..."The Evolving Self" is a challenging book. Especially from a linguistic point of view, this excellent book is difficult. That being said, there is simplicity in terms of Robert Kegan's core messages on the other side of the complex language and thought processes found over the course of this book. "The Evolving Self" is about human, and personality, development. Read in conjunction with another excellent book on development and change, "Change: Principles of Problem Formation and Problem Resolution" (published in 1974), a set of "meta-themes", or themes about themes...emerges related to human development. Kegan's book (the subject of this review) was published in 1982...the fact that this book and "Change: Principles of Problem Formation and Problem Resolution" were published more than 25 years ago is not meant to suggest that no good books of this type have been published in the recent past, but rather that "The Evolving Self" and "Change: Principles of Problem Formation and Problem Resolution" have stood the test of time well. From my perspective, Kegan covers two fundamental topics in this book, (1) "meaning-making," and (2) the evolution of self as an activity...a process and a motion. While these two topics may seem abstract at first glance, they make sense in the context of the models and stories encapsulated in this important book. The first fundamental topic of this book, "meaning-making," represents the manner in which people make meaning of events...more or less a process by which an event or action "turns into" an event or action from the point of view of a person. In other words, how a person makes meaning of an event or action. The second fundamental topic of "The Evolving Self," that of the evolution of self as an activity, reflects a philosophy or viewpoint that recognizes/views the world as being made up of processes as much as entities. Kegan notes that this viewpoint is common across the Chinese culture, but less frequently found in other cultures...thus, "seeing" the world in this manner may take practice from those not of the Chinese culture. Put another way, Kegan states, "This book is about human being as an activity. It is not about the doing which a human does; it is about the doing which a human is." This may sound complex, but the panorama of Kegan's writing and thinking elucidates the importance of this distinction. Thus, the simple messages of Kegan's book, on the other side of the complex linguistics found in the book, are these, (1) different people "make meaning" of things and people in different, somewhat predictable ways, and (2) the manner is which a "self" evolves follows an evolutionary pattern. I highly recommend this book...it will likely require a significant investment of time and thought to make it through the book in a meaningful way, but it is well worth the effort. | ||
Accidentally? Yes, But My Good Fortune! In the fall of 1981 I received a Merrill Fellowship to the Harvard Divinity School. I went expecting to take a seminar with Lawrence Kohlberg, the deservedly famous scholar who worked in the area of human development. I had even bought a book he wrote in anticipation of the experience. I found out that he was on leave and would not be at Harvard at all during the semester I was there. With great disappointment and reluctance I enrolled in a course that was recommended to me by Professor Sharon Parks. I drug myself off (thinking I needed to be drugged!) to the suggested class. Lo and behold, the gifts of Robert Kegan were astounding. I was soon mesmerized by him and the insights that he offered to the ones in his lecture hall. The insights were, even then I think, being formulated into the manuscript that became this book. What can I say about this book? I guarantee you will NOT be disappointed. As an American Baptist pastor I soon put the insights I gained into practice as I used what he taught me in the development of rites appropriate for the stages of growth into rites of passage of those I served in the congregation who had permitted my sabbatical leave in the first place. This was something new for American Baptists who usually recognize birth, marriage and death with ceremonies but few others. I still remember how I developed a rite for a dentist who was moving from an office poorly located to serve his patients into a new office. It was a holy experience and I shall never forget it. I remember that experience, in non-traditional language for an American Baptist, as a sacrament of meaning. It was rooted in the insights I learned from Professor Kegan! Buy and read. You just may be challenged to develop rites appropriate for your life and growth. I always have a warm memory when my pastor, T. Wyatt Watkins, presides at such a rite in the First Baptist Church of Cumberland, near my home in Indianapolis. If all this can happen to me as the result of this book then buy it, read it and experiment with your own rites! | ||
Brilliant, Helpful It's hard to exaggerate how good this book is. I am reading it as part of a Masters class in developmental psychology and it is simply brilliant. Whether reading it for personal awareness or insights into client problems, it provides an overview of developmenal theories, while proposing its own elegant understanding of the lifelong spiraling cycle of evolution which is life. It is worth any effort and deserves multiple readings. Buy it and its companion book How The Way We Talk Can Change The Way We Work by Keegan and Layhe. It provides a step by step process that can be used for non work-related areas of growth as well as work-related. | ||
Definitive book on Identity development In this very readable text, Kegan provides descriptive, anecdotal examples of his arguments, making his concepts easier to grasp. | ||